It’s Your Life! Make it Work!

Weather you do good or bad people will always have something negative to say; Matter of fact, the more good you do the more judgmental many will get, expecting you to be perfect as they put you under a magnifying glass, yet neglect to look at their own lives; But you know what? We get to determine whether our labels become our realities, We get to decide whether we choose to believe the odds or believe God.
We have the ability to choose to love ourselves more and decide we will succeed! Don’t focus on what people think! rather strive to be the BEST you can daily! There is a process to everything! Live & learn… You can be genuinely misunderstood or fraudulently accepted, but you can’t be everything to everyone. Not everyone is going to “get you”. Learn to be okay with that. The more in love you fall with yourself the less acceptance you need from others. Often times we get so caught up trying to be so memorable to people that we forget who we are to ourselves, but never forget that you are the star of your own show, a co-star in some other peoples show and an extra in others. You gotta learn to be okay with that if you are going to grow. God can’t direct your show with you creating your own plots. Growth is a part of life and change is inevitable. You will have to answer to God for the life you lived. Make it honest, Make it genuine, Make it compassionate and Make it real. Happy New Month!

Have a Blessed Week
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When Failure Means Success!

Sometimes your biggest disappointments will birth your greatest blessings! A setback is not the end but a pit-stop to repair;
Failure is meant to change your approach, not break your spirit, failure is meant to motivate you, not make you quit. Been defeated doesn’t make you a failure, staying defeated does. It might be easy to stay defeated, but moving forward is the first step to achieving great success. You don’t have to let your scars scare you from having a future…. A survivor is not a Person who’s life has been struggle free but a person who has been freed from that struggle. Life is too short to be intentionally unhappy, So stop grieving over what could have been and start taking hold of what is….Everything that happens to us in life is a trial, a test we should see as an opportunity to grow, as something pushing us to find strength we did not know we had. The bigger the test, the more we are pushed to grow. You got to stop believing you are a victim and start seeing yourself as a work in progress; Its time to exercise your strength. Stop complaining about the darkness, light a candle; Stop complaining about your failures, move beyond them. Don’t let your past failures keep you in bondage. Being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional. Life is designed to test your staying power, so don’t let your failures get the best of you, we may not always get it right at first, but we should never stop trying.

Have a Blessed Week ahead

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Define Your Worth(2) (Just for Ladies)

Dear Sisters, Let someone want you, instead of acting like you need them all the time; Let someone meet your standard instead of you lowering yours to meet theirs all the time. Every compliment someone gives you shouldn’t make you fall in love; You got to Stop looking so Thirsty. Stop looking so EASY. Stop looking so trashy and find some class about what you do. You don’t need to sleep with success to make you successful. You can open doors without opening your legs. You are BEAUTIFUL just the way you are! Love & accept yourself! You are WORTHY in God! You don’t need a man to confirm that… So you better Stop trying to force that man who isn’t ready to be ‘ready’.. You are only going to leave yourself disappointed … You can’t blame him for leaving you disappointed because you are the one setting unrealistic expectations… Give it to God & realize you are perfect to ONE!!!! Not everyONE, just one! You are not going to find your Prince messing around with a pimp named SlickBack, You are not gonna find your Prince hanging around people who don’t move your life forward. You can never create the relationship you want out of someone who can’t give it to you; Just because it feels good doesn’t mean it is good; Don’t let your “feelings” lead you to a place where you shouldn’t be! One bad decision can ruin a life time full of good choices!


Have a Blessed Week!
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