Define Your Worth(2) (Just for Ladies)

Dear Sisters, Let someone want you, instead of acting like you need them all the time; Let someone meet your standard instead of you lowering yours to meet theirs all the time. Every compliment someone gives you shouldn’t make you fall in love; You got to Stop looking so Thirsty. Stop looking so EASY. Stop looking so trashy and find some class about what you do. You don’t need to sleep with success to make you successful. You can open doors without opening your legs. You are BEAUTIFUL just the way you are! Love & accept yourself! You are WORTHY in God! You don’t need a man to confirm that… So you better Stop trying to force that man who isn’t ready to be ‘ready’.. You are only going to leave yourself disappointed … You can’t blame him for leaving you disappointed because you are the one setting unrealistic expectations… Give it to God & realize you are perfect to ONE!!!! Not everyONE, just one! You are not going to find your Prince messing around with a pimp named SlickBack, You are not gonna find your Prince hanging around people who don’t move your life forward. You can never create the relationship you want out of someone who can’t give it to you; Just because it feels good doesn’t mean it is good; Don’t let your “feelings” lead you to a place where you shouldn’t be! One bad decision can ruin a life time full of good choices!

Ose!

Have a Blessed Week!
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Don’t Loose Yourself!

It’s hard to move forward when someone else controls your steps, It’s hard to be successful working off someone else’s clock, Its hard to live your life, living off someone else’s opinion. If you don’t care what they think, then stop listening to what they say; The more you entertain others peoples negative opinions about you, the more power you give them to control your life. The problem isn’t what they said about you…The problem is you choose to believe the things they said; If other peoples negative opinions about you can convince you to give up on your dreams, then you don’t deserve to have that dream in the first place. If other peoples negative opinions about you can convince you to put your life on hold, then you were never ready to move forward in the first place. You might not be in control of what people bring across your way, but you are always in control of what you choose to accept…Don’t lose yourself trying to win other people over; Don’t put your life on hold just because they feel the time isn’t right for you to move ahead; Don’t let living for “them” cost you “you”. Your dreams are just as important as their expectations. Don’t let your happiness depend on the approval of others. No matter how much you change for the better, there will always be people who will only see you for who you used to be, they will overlook everything you are doing right just to try to find out what you are doing wrong. You got to forget them and focus. If I listened to opinions, I would never be where I am today. I learned to stop taking advice from people who knew nothing about my life. Opinions don’t matter, it’s what you choose to believe that does.

Have a Blessed Day
~Ose
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Eight Things Successful People Do!

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(1) Successful people do more with less – It’s not what you have that will determine your success or failure in life but what you do with what you have!

(2) Successful people are courageous- It is always better to pursue something great that frightens you; rather than spend your time pursuing something small that puts you at ease. Courage is an important ingredient of success!

(3) Successful people are disciplined – Your ability to discipline yourself to do what you should, when you should, whether you feel like it or not, is one of the keys to becoming a person of excellence and living a life of uncommon success.

(4) Successful people are committed – life will only release success and greatness to you in the field you apply commitment to the truth that governs it

(5) Successful people know that success is impossible without goals; they set goals…

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Don’t Defeat Yourself!

There are many uncertainties in life, but you are not one. So stop allowing what happened to you control what’s left of you; Stop allowing what happened in you past control your future. Nothing can hold you back without your permission; Your past can either prepare you for a better tomorrow or convince you one doesn’t exist; You are not your past unless you choose to be. Don’t let the things of your past have power over your life. The pains, hurts and disappointment of your past becomes powerless once you decide to let go, Holding on to things that we are supposed to let go of, just keeps our lives in a season that we are no longer supposed to be in. The one thing you are holding on to could be that one thing that’s holding you back! Its time to let go of the pains, let go of the hurts, let go of the disappointments. Sometimes it takes losing your “everything” just to show you it was NOTHING you needed. Don’t let what you are going through take your life. There is so much more to you than what’s trying to break you. Bad chapters can still create a story that ends well. Being a good person doesn’t always mean you don’t do wrong, Being a good person doesn’t mean you are perfect. It means you strive each day to do right even in the face of wrong. . .You can live a victorious life once you stop defeating yourself; You can live a successful life once you let go of your past; Having a negative outlook on life won’t get you positive results. You can’t stay stuck on a “chapter” trying to get everybody on the same page. That’s how you will never finish the story. Its not over until you win!

Have a Blessed Week!
~Ose
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No Going Back!

Sometimes we can’t control getting hurt, that, I can understand, but Rehearsing the same pain is a choice; Driving down the same road that led you no where is a choice; Living that very same lifestyle that brought you no good is a choice; Passing through the same fire expecting not to get burnt this time around is a choice; Giving your trust back to the same person who abused it, is a choice. You got to stop pressing rewind on the things that needs to be deleted from your life. You got to stop getting upset with God for not closing a door you choose to keep open. You can’t get your life together by staying involved with the very same things that’s tearing it apart. Why complain about a situation that you aren’t willing to change. You got to say to yourself no more walking back to where you walked away from. You can’t spend your whole life in “revolving doors”, leaving just to come back to the same reason(s) you left for. You should refuse to waste your life going back to the same mess, revisiting the same problems and reliving the same hurts. Its time to break this cycle of pain; It’s time to let go of that hurt and release that pain; It’s time to let go of the things that are stripping your heart of its happiness. It’s time to practice that smile daily. You can’t HEAL by going back to the hurt; You can’t receive your future by holding on to your past. You got to break free and stay free! Its not over until you win!

Have a blessed week

Ose!
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Define Your Worth! (Just for Ladies)

Dear Single Ladies, You are beautiful just the way you are! You don’t need a beautiful makeup to make you worthy…You don’t need a fancy hairstyle to give you significance…You don’t need a lovely outfit to give you relevance….You don’t need the approval of a man to recognize your worth! True beauty shines from within! Focus on being beautiful on the inside as much as many do on the outside!! Being beautiful on the inside speaks of your character and conduct; You can’t put up makeup on your heart but you can make your character better! If you want to be adored then you got to make yourself adorable, if you want to be respected, then you got to make yourself respectable. Its time to discover all the beautiful things that make you unique….and own them unapologetically. When you stop being that woman that desperately needs a man and focus on creating a better you, then you will become the woman a man needs. Opening your legs for that man who only spends time with you after midnight is NOT going to make him love you! Love cannot be found where it doesn’t exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Stop doing the same thing expecting a different result! You are WORTH the wait!!!! Anything worth having is worth waiting for and you are definitely worth waiting for. So stop trying to pick yourself apart to fit what you think this guy or that guy wants. Let God put you together for where He needs you to go. Its time to Act like a lady! Think like a lady! Demand respect like a boss…Don’t lower yourself for a little attention…Temporary satisfactions will eventually leave you empty…Don’t let your temporary loneliness cause you permanent unhappiness…. Nothing is worth losing your worth;

Have a Blessed Day!

Ose!
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Rise Above!!

Never let people plant their Impossibilities in your life! Don’t give their opinions power to steal your vision: Just because it didn’t happen for them, doesn’t mean it can’t happen for you; Just because it didn’t work out for them, doesn’t mean it won’t work out for you. Their limitations has nothing to do with you, their impossibilites has nothing to do with you, what they could not do has nothing to do with what you can do; Don’t let their failures kill your dreams, Don’t let their fears kill your faith, Don’t let their disappointments cause you to say nothing, do nothing, or be nothing; Believe in God not people, trust God not opinions, depend on God not yourself! The higher you go in life, the harder people will try to pull you down: they want you to do good as long as you don’t do better than them, so they support you until they view you as a competition, but don’t let this kind of people hold you back; You don’t need their permission to be great! Some people aren’t in your life to help you reach the top, but to keep you from getting there. You have all it takes to be all that God wants you to be; Don’t let their small minds kill your big dreams! Rise above their discouragement, Rise above their opinions: Keep doing it big! Keep winning! The best of you is let to come!

Have a Blessed week!

Ose!
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Stop Talking; Start Doing!

Too many people are quick to say what they want, but are not willing to do what it takes to get it! You get so good at talking about doing big things, but still doing the same things that got you nowhere, going to the same places that brought you no good, hanging around the same small mindsets that held you back, talking about the same “dreams” expecting something different, but doing nothing different. You can’t expect to be different doing things that keep you the same; You can’t expect to make progress in your life when all you do is sit back and talk! It’s time to get done talking and start doing!! Last year shouldn’t look like this year and honestly yesterday shouldn’t look like today…….How many times are you going to have to say “this is my year” and end of living the entire year just like every other unproductive year before it; How many times are you going to have to say “I’m gonna get serious with my Life” and end up doing the very same things that got you nowhere; Don’t just say it! Live it! Hard work doesn’t need an introduction speech! When your life speaks for itself…you don’t have to say much! Nothing changes until you change it, Nothing works until you work it, Nothing happens, until you make it happen. You can’t become who you want to be, by remaining who you are. Your life doesn’t change because you want better, it changes when you work for better. Let this be the year you find a way to live your purpose, not find excuses why you haven’t. God has put in you all you need to become who he wants you to be, you got to look inward and make your life count!

Have a Blessed Week

Ose!
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Move On!

As the year gradually comes to a close, it is important we understand that a time such as this brings the perfect opportunity to bid farewell to the past and welcome the future with such great expectation…Don’t let your past kill your future. It doesn’t matter how bad you may have had it, its time to leave the past behind and move on; It doesn’t matter the pain and hurts that flooded your life, you still got to move on; True strength isn’t always shown in what you can hold on to, but it is sometimes shown in what you are willing to let go of; So you got to leave the regrets behind. You got to leave the disappointments behind and look forward with expectation to a future of countless possibilities; Don’t stay stuck on the things that didn’t work out for you, Don’t stay stuck on the situations that didn’t change, MOVE ON and let your future give you the better you deserve. Regardless of what’s been said, you can change how your story ends. No matter how un-fulfilling the present year may have been for you, I want to assure you that the coming year will be better!! It’s my sincere prayer that in the coming year, your life will be adorned with goodness and abundant joys. Wishing you all the best! Cheers!

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I’d like to take this moment to appreciate everyone for the love and support through the year, I read all your comments and am so glad your lives been imparted for good. God bless you!

Have a Blessed Week
Ose
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Turn The Page Over!

Every new day is a gift to start all over;

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Some of you all just got to turn the pages of your life over to realize that there’s more to your book than the page you been stuck on all these years; You got to close the chapter of hurts, you got to close this chapter of disappointments and move on to a new chapter where you get the opportunity to start all over again; A bad chapter doesn’t mean you can’t have a beautiful story. God is not through with you yet. Just because the road seems rocky doesn’t mean it won’t lead you to a beautiful place! Don’t hold on to your history at the expense of your destiny; Don’t try to fix what’s been broken in your past, let your future create something better. It’s time to get your life’s worth, its time to get what your life deserves and move on from the things that don’t…

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