It’s Your Life! Make it Work!

Weather you do good or bad people will always have something negative to say; Matter of fact, the more good you do the more judgmental many will get, expecting you to be perfect as they put you under a magnifying glass, yet neglect to look at their own lives; But you know what? We get to determine whether our labels become our realities, We get to decide whether we choose to believe the odds or believe God.
We have the ability to choose to love ourselves more and decide we will succeed! Don’t focus on what people think! rather strive to be the BEST you can daily! There is a process to everything! Live & learn… You can be genuinely misunderstood or fraudulently accepted, but you can’t be everything to everyone. Not everyone is going to “get you”. Learn to be okay with that. The more in love you fall with yourself the less acceptance you need from others. Often times we get so caught up trying to be so memorable to people that we forget who we are to ourselves, but never forget that you are the star of your own show, a co-star in some other peoples show and an extra in others. You gotta learn to be okay with that if you are going to grow. God can’t direct your show with you creating your own plots. Growth is a part of life and change is inevitable. You will have to answer to God for the life you lived. Make it honest, Make it genuine, Make it compassionate and Make it real. Happy New Month!

Have a Blessed Week
~Ose
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Live Out Your Truth!

A lot of people spend so much time living a life that’s far from their true reality just to feel included…they live a lie just to attract the people that mean nothing and push away the people that mean everything… they spend money they don’t have on things they don’t need just to impress people they don’t like. It’s time to get real with yourself, It’s time to let people know you for who you really are and if they choose to walk away from identifying with your truth, then they weren’t meant to be in your life in the first place…. Don’t be caught living a life full of lies…because lies are only believable for so long, your truth will eventually show up in the end. You can “photoshop” your life for social sites, but that still won’t change the picture offline; You got to be honest with yourself, you got to be real with you. It is NEVER too late to start over; Its never too late to reinvent yourself! If you don’t like how your life is going, YOU have the power to change it! You will stumble, yes you will! but you just got to get back up and do it all over again until you succeed! You can live a lie to gain the world, but taint your soul by dismissing the truth; If this truth offends you, it only means one thing; You are living a lie! The truth will always step on the toes of someone living a lie. . . . . . .

Have a Blessed week!
~Ose
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When Failure Means Success!

Sometimes your biggest disappointments will birth your greatest blessings! A setback is not the end but a pit-stop to repair;
Failure is meant to change your approach, not break your spirit, failure is meant to motivate you, not make you quit. Been defeated doesn’t make you a failure, staying defeated does. It might be easy to stay defeated, but moving forward is the first step to achieving great success. You don’t have to let your scars scare you from having a future…. A survivor is not a Person who’s life has been struggle free but a person who has been freed from that struggle. Life is too short to be intentionally unhappy, So stop grieving over what could have been and start taking hold of what is….Everything that happens to us in life is a trial, a test we should see as an opportunity to grow, as something pushing us to find strength we did not know we had. The bigger the test, the more we are pushed to grow. You got to stop believing you are a victim and start seeing yourself as a work in progress; Its time to exercise your strength. Stop complaining about the darkness, light a candle; Stop complaining about your failures, move beyond them. Don’t let your past failures keep you in bondage. Being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional. Life is designed to test your staying power, so don’t let your failures get the best of you, we may not always get it right at first, but we should never stop trying.

Have a Blessed Week ahead

Ose!
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Dear Single Ladies! (Part One)

(1)Dear Single Ladies, If you carry yourself only to catch a man’s eye then you probably won’t steal his heart!

(2)Dear Single Ladies, that degrading lifestyle might get you a man’s attention for the night, but I promise you it won’t keep it for life. #BeWise!

(3)Dear Single Ladies, Your body is a temple not a hotel; Stop letting men come and go as they please. Respect yourself or nobody else will.

(4)Dear Single Ladies, If you Dress like it, Talk like it, Act like it and Carry yourself like it; Don’t get mad when they treat you like it #SeemsLikeCommonSense

(5)Dear Single Ladies, You might be too big for some, or too petite for others but you’re the perfect size for the heart that’s meant to love you!”

(6)Dear Single Ladies, You’re beautiful; Never let people who are blind to beauty make you think any different. Keep smiling and keep being you.

(7) Dear Single Ladies, your pretty face may get you a flirt, your lovely heart may get you a lover but your attitude will get you a man who will stay with you forever. #TruthBeTold!

(8)Dear Single Ladies, Don’t let the fear of loneliness make you accept less than your worth! you deserve better!

(9)Dear Single Ladies, your heart is not a punching bag, stop letting guys use it for target practice; Be wise, Protect your heart!

(10)Dear Single Ladies, Never rush into another relationship just to get your mind off your past relationship. That’s false healing!!!

(11) Dear Single Ladies, If you are not being treated with love and respect, then you need to check your price tag. Perhaps you have marked yourself down. It’s you who tell people what you are worth and how to treat you by what you decide to accept!!