Dear You, It shouldn’t take your heart getting broken for you to wake up, it shouldn’t take wasting years of your life before realizing that person you been dating wasn’t right for you. I know it’s easier said then done because emotions easily keeps you attached, but sometimes you got to let go of what you feel and remember what you deserve. You should be mindful of the type of person you choose to give your heart to. If all you date is a “certain type” then don’t complain when you get treated that same certain type of way. Most people inevitably get treated the way they permit themselves to be treated, if you allow someone to treat you like you’re worthless then they will. Respect yourself enough not to put up with being mistreated. You set the standard for your life, Will you allow yourself to be treated like a “privilege” or be treated like an “option”. There’s plenty of good people out there, just don’t let your “preferences” give you the same experiences to make you think different! Find love with your heart, not with your eyes! You know it’s not real if you got to question it, and you know it’s not True Love if it leaves you unsure. A Relationships is meant to help you, not hurt you. A relationship is meant to bless you not stress you; Stop letting the “possibility” make you blind to the reality; No one will change for you unless they decide to change for themselves. Be with a partner who reflects the person you aspire to be; Be with a partner who you are proud to know, someone who admires you, loves you and respect you…Someone who makes your day a little brighter simply by being in it.
Have a Blessed Day